“How dare you shop there!”

Three of my photos from this year – Butterfly and Citrus, The Beat of Officer Harris and Night Train to Heaven – have been accepted for the “Members’ Show” at the Photo Center of Troy.  Yep, my two “Single Shot: Half Shot” double-exposure-in-two-cameras photos, as well as my citrus-slurping-butterfly shot, will be on display at the Troy Photo Center starting this Friday, as part of Troy Night Out.  Happiness.

Night Train to Heaven

So to make my pictures look impressive, and to have them displayed properly on the Troy Photo Center walls, I took the three prints to the Hobby Lobby store in Latham.  The framers there do a great job, the pictures are properly matted and mounted, and I appreciate their hard work and customer service.

Which makes the upcoming decision a difficult one for me.

By now you’ve heard of the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act, or maybe you’ve heard of its nickname as ObamaCare.  And depending on what name by which you refer to it, is a pretty good indication of how you feel about the program.  The short version is that the PPACA will require that companies pay for their employees’ health care costs, no matter what medical assistance their employees might need.

Anyway, a couple of weeks ago the company that owns the 500 Hobby Lobby stores filed a lawsuit against the Obama administration, in an effort to block certain aspects of the Health Care Act from being applied to their company.  Specifically, Hobby Lobby objects to the possibility that they would have to pay for “morning-after” emergency contraception if their employees requested it. Here’s another article, this time from the Chicago Tribune.

Understand this.  The Hobby Lobby organization is proud of their faith, and that faith is incorporated into Hobby Lobby’s hours of operation (closed on Sundays) and its available store products.  The owner of the Hobby Lobby company, David Green, recently expressed his concerns and beliefs regarding the lawsuit in a USA Today opinion letter.

Hobby Lobby is very dedicated to its faith; and although they have no problems providing comprehensive health insurance for their employees, they are drawing the line at providing financing for the “morning after” birth control pill. This news report from NewsOK is worth viewing as well.

As you can imagine, this decision has upset people on both sides of the issue.  There are Facebook pages calling for a national boycott of all Hobby Lobby stores; just as there are Facebook pages of people who refuse to boycott Hobby Lobby. There’s also online petitions, including this one, demanding a national boycott of all Hobby Lobby stores until the company withdraws its lawsuit.

There are also some voices who state that the Hobby Lobby boycott push may, in fact, be an attempt by one news outlet to create a news story of “company versus community,” possibly trying to stir up a Chick-fil-A-sized storm.

Hobby Lobby is actually the first non-Catholic company to file a lawsuit against the PPACA. Several Catholic churches have filed suit against the government regarding enforcement of a Denver-based HVAC manufacturing company, Hercules Industries, recently won a court injunction against the PPACA being enforced against its company. Herc

But the question now becomes… would I shop at a Hobby Lobby, knowing that they are opposed to paying for “morning-after” birth control pills for their employees as part of mandated health coverage? Should I be “voting with my feet” and taking my business to any of the other Capital Region hobby and craft stores? Or does my purchasing framing supplies and stained glass for “Dream Window” projects at Hobby Lobby mean that I implicitly endorse David Green’s beliefs and mandates for his employees’ health care coverage?

This is the problem. And I’m not the person who is going to solve it like Alexander solving the Gordian Knot. I can only operate on my personal beliefs when shopping or not shopping at Hobby Lobby, or at any store, restaurant or service provider.

Because for me, I’m neither pro-abortion nor anti-abortion. I’m pro-choice, in that I believe that the parents have a right to decide to keep a child, just as much as they have the right to abort the child, or give the child up for adoption, or anything else.

And before anyone questions whether I can actually make a decision like this, especially since I’m not the person who carries a baby for nine months in a womb…

I’ve been there. Trust me on this.

When my daughter Cassaundra was conceived, neither I nor her mother were ready to be parents. We discussed our options and we disagreed and we argued. But we set aside everything and did our best. Cassaundra was born and she’s doing well today.

I’ve said before – I wasn’t the greatest parent in the world. And I made mistakes. Every parent does. But I learned from those mistakes, and I did what I could to keep Cassaundra safe. As did everyone else in her extended family. I’m not saying that any one of you readers would have made the same decision, nor am I chastising anyone for even thinking of disagreeing with my comments.

You are allowed to make choices in your life. You can boycott Hobby Lobby because of their lawsuit; you can increase your purchases at Hobby Lobby because of this lawsuit. That’s your choice.

So I will continue to shop at Hobby Lobby. But in my doing so, I also encourage every one of you readers to make your own personal decision as to whether Hobby Lobby’s beliefs and core policies regarding their lawsuit would either encourage or discourage your shopping within its stores. My decision to continue shopping there should not sway your personal shopping habits one way or the other. But I do want to hear your decisions and thoughts.

I may not have the right answer on this Hobby Lobby boycott question… but then again, I’m not even sure that there IS an all-encompassing “right answer.”