❄ and ☃ and 4:00 in the morning

I should not be writing blog posts at four in the morning. Can’t help it. I woke from a half-peaceful sleep.  It’s cold this morning.  I can feel the winter chills on my skin.  I knew there were snowflakes in the evening air last night; I glanced through the Venetian blinds from my living room…

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Do not speak ill of the dead… or else.

This report in the Reno Gazette tells the story of a woman’s obituary. Why is this so newsworthy?  Everybody dies at some point in time, and everyone gets an obituary – a necrology of their achievements and accomplishments, and the survival of their family members. Not this time. The obituary for this woman is not…

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Call. Even if you don’t think you need to.

Sometimes the pressure is so overwhelming, it’s like the only source of relief is the one of last resort. Your relationship ended.  You lost a family member or a close friend.  The bullying is non-stop.  He won’t stop hitting you.  You just received the diagnosis.  Nobody understands.  Nobody cares.  Nobody would miss you. And there’s…

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4 + 2000 = 50

Every day, I post something new on this blog.  Haven’t missed a day in four years.  I mean it.  Go back to Christmas 2009, there’s a blog post.  Go back to February 2, 2012, there’s a blog post.  I might have forgotten to post something on September 31st, but don’t tell anyone. Still, as of…

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“It’s in the last place that you look.”

Damn it, I hope I didn’t lose that spool of film. Where is it?  I have to find it. Please don’t tell me that it completely vanished, that it got lost years ago when I moved to Green Island.  I can’t replace it, and I need it right now. Oh, hi there, blog reader.  You’re…

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