Survivors don’t always survive

When I was in college, my professor of English, John O’Neill, noticed something in my first class term paper.ย  Most specifically, he alerted me that the sentence in my term paper – “Usually these things get off to an unusual start” – was not only grammatically incorrect, it was also a use of a positive…

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Death and the cold mind

It’s not the kind of day I wanted. And I’ve gone through it in my life many times.ย  And when it happens… I can feel death inside me.ย  A cold, shivering, unforgiving death. No matter how many successes I have in my life, no matter how many wonderful moments I’ve achieved, I always dread the…

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I once was the pineapple

Last night at the Ruck, before the Monday night “Catch the Mania” trivia game began, I chatted with one of the members of another trivia team, the Troyale Family.ย  We were mostly talking about trivia and whether the “Catch the Mania” game was as good as the “Trivia Nights Live” competitions. And somehow, the conversation…

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The Fagbug was in a car accident…

This is not good. You know that I am a big fan of Erin Davies and her Fagbug car.ย  This car has gone from being just a mode of transportation to a symbol of intolerance and acceptance. Well, apparently somehow, at some point in time yesterday, the Fagbug was in a car accident. Details are…

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A long way from Howe Road

All that’s left of Howe Road is an old, broken power meter.ย  The meter is surrounded by growth and brush.ย  A series of metal gates and fences block off any access to the area. I remember the last time I visited Howe Road.ย  There were feelings of dread racing through my body, aches and hurt…

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The Wreath

Saturday afternoon.ย  I’m driving through Ravena, where I know there’s a flea market.ย  Flea markets are great diversions on a weekend, and maybe it’s because my Grandma Betty used to take me every weekend to the local flea markets in the greater Boston area, that I’ve developed an affinity for finding treasures in these locales.…

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The personal choices and your personal reasons

This morning, while working on an unrelated blog post, I decided to check my Facebook feed.ย  And at that point, I saw this post from my daughter Cassaundra.ย  And she wasn’t happy. I was told I was um-compassionate to animals because I chose to eat their flesh when all they wanted to do was live.…

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My Equinox 2013 Thanksgiving Drive Day

Am I prepared? You bet I’m prepared.ย  Not just physically, but emotionally. And I may have saved a life in the process. Wednesday evening, I made sure that the Blackbird not only had a full tank of gasoline, but that it also had my favorite holiday Yankee Candle “car jar” air freshener – Balsam and…

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โ„ and โ˜ƒ and 4:00 in the morning

I should not be writing blog posts at four in the morning. Can’t help it. I woke from a half-peaceful sleep.ย  It’s cold this morning.ย  I can feel the winter chills on my skin.ย  I knew there were snowflakes in the evening air last night; I glanced through the Venetian blinds from my living room…

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