Don’t waste your chance, said the old man of the mountain…

It’s Monday, around noon, and I’m at the Charlton Plaza on the Massachusetts Turnpike, on my way home from vacation. On my trip back from New Brunswick, I passed through about seven miles of New Hampshire – the seven miles of highway that stretch from Maine to Massachusetts.  Driving break time, and I pulled into…

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John Lennon’s greatest gift to us all… imagination.

I’ve closed my eyes and let my imagination take me to a million different worlds, a million different lifetimes, adventures beyond the stars and wonders throughout time. It’s the ability to use my imagination – and, from those moments of thought and contemplation and reflection, build upon my life – that I feel has been…

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The Fagbug meets Equality House

It’s no secret that I am a fan and supporter of Erin Davies and her Fagbug, the rainbow-painted Volkswagen Beetle that stands as a symbol of support and pride against bigotry and homophobia. Well, the Fagbug has traveled the country over the past few years, and recently it made a swing through Topeka, Kansas. Topeka…

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Imagination becomes reality.

I wonder sometimes if, between the time we start to fall asleep and the moments where it actually occurs, what we might hear in our subconscious mind. Maybe we are greeted with an electromagnetic chorus of classical music, similar to Isao Tomita’s interpretation of Claude Debussy’s “Arabesque No. 1”, in our minds… Or maybe Claude…

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Nine months after the 49th Resolution.

The toughest part is letting go.  Letting go of the anger and the hatred and the feelings of worthlessness and regret and fear and sadness. Not to just let it go completely – but to not let it take control of my life any more. It’s been almost nine months since I sat in a…

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The dog and the puffed wheat

It’s Christmas, 1969.  At that time, I was living with my maternal grandparents in a small Cape-style house on Kenwood Avenue in Slingerlands.  And Christmas was coming. I’m sure my aunts purchased things from the Friendly Home Parties catalog for all of us, and I’m sure my grandparents wrapped everything the night before Christmas.  I’m…

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“You’re wrong, Mr. Miller. You get a C-minus.”

Last Thursday at trivia, my teammate Jeremy McNamara, who besides being a killer Ultimate Disc player is also a chemistry professor – as an aside, J-Mac could rattle off the entire Periodic Table of the Elements without having to sing it Tom Lehrer style – was grading term papers in the middle of the trivia…

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