I remember the moment clearly. It was the spring of 2014. I was visiting the Albany Center Gallery; my photo The Jumbuck, a profile shot of an Icelandic sheep, was my first-ever acceptance into the Capital District Photo Regionals. Man, what a great moment. What an accomplishment. Then I received the text. “Dad died. Don’t…
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The black eye
On my way back from a photo shoot yesterday, I stopped at a country restaurant for lunch. It was a packed restaurant, but the waitstaff were moving quickly and all customers were greeted in plenty of time. And I was hungry. Food time it is. I sat at the counter. A young waitress – I…
Read MoreWhy you don’t say what you shouldn’t say…
There’s a tremendously sinister wave in our world. It’s the shaming wave. It’s the superiority complex wave. It’s the “I’m better than you and you need to listen to me because I’m right and you’re wrong” wave. Ugh. Think about this. Think about the time you saw someone or heard about someone’s background, and already…
Read MoreWhy “full disclosure” is so important
When you are in any form of media, it’s important to disclose that the information you’re providing is either your own, or that you were requested or required to say something by your company’s mandate. Or if you are offering testimony on a product in your blog or in your podcast, you need to disclose…
Read MoreJeremy McNamara: Badge 5475
Tomorrow, my friend Jeremy McNamara gets to fulfill the #1 entry on every competitive runner’s life list. He’s going to run his first-ever Boston Marathon. He’s wearing running bib number 5475, and he’s going to race the 26 miles from Hopkinton to Copley Square on Monday morning. This is a major, major, major achievement. I’m…
Read MoreReaching back to reach forward
I’ve written in previous blog posts about my journey. It was never easy. I survived many trials – everything from vicious child abuse and horrendous bullying, to several adult struggles in parenthood and relationships. Somehow I made it through all those moments. Today … my struggles are more internal. Both physical and mental. Last Monday,…
Read MoreThoughts on Stephen Hawking
I’m a young boy, visiting my Grandma Betty during the 1970’s. On occasions when I was well-behaved during the week, she treated me with a visit to the Museum of Science in Boston. She would let me visit all the exhibits, while she sat down on a chair near the East Wing and knitted. One…
Read MoreAnniversaries of reverence
One of the most personal moments of my blogging tenure occurred way back in 2010. On that day, I blogged about a personal moment from 1970 that tore my family to shreds. Long story short – on February 20, 1970, my grandfather made a horrifying choice. He had a few shots of Cutty Sark in…
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The Vicious Cycle
On February 14th, a school in Florida began the day with kids arriving for class. By the end of the day, their worst fears came true. A student – one of their own – arrived on campus with an AR-15 assault rifle and started shooting his classmates. He killed seventeen people and wounded fourteen others. …
Read MoreMy construction bug
Bear with me as I get a bit reflective today. Long-time readers of my blog know that I will get involved in projects. Projects that require disassembly of furniture or windows or crates or whatnot. Projects that will take those disassembled pieces, and turn them into something new and unique and artful and exciting. Currently…
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