Why I’m not “Charlie” or “Charles”

I know it’s on my birth certificate.ย  I know it’s on my driver’s license. Still, only a few people in my life – a VERY SELECT FEW PEOPLE – ever get to call me those names today. And with good reason. We do not get to pick our birth names. By the time we’re out…

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The Wings

I have a pair of pilot’s wings. In a long-ago time, airlines actually gave out little trinkets and toys to children during flights.ย  Kids could receive little metal “junior pilot” or “junior stewardess” wings, as a souvenir of a successful flight. Today, I take these pilot’s wings from a little display shelf in my apartment,…

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Bullying with the “ice bucket challenge”

So far, the ice bucket challenge – where people film themselves as they dump buckets of ice water over themselves, all to help raise money and awareness for Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis and a cure for same – has raised millions upon millions of dollars.ย  Which is a good thing. Sadly, the challenge has also been…

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“Who are you calling ‘elderly,’ Miller?”

Boy, did I step in the steaming pile. Yesterday, in my blog, I referred to a woman, who looked as if she was in her mid-50’s, as “elderly.” And what happened?ย  I got a swift lecture by my blog readers for combining that age bracket with that term. Yeah, maybe I am thinking that someone…

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The elderly woman in the purple blouse

Yesterday I had to travel to New York City for some business projects.ย  Rather than drive all the way down and all the way back, I rode Amtrak.ย  A little relaxation, a little scenery, this that and the other thing.ย  Plus, as I’ve said in this blog previously, I come from a long line of…

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“We’re not gay, just in case you were wondering.”

A couple of weeks ago, I was working on a project and I had to contact an old friend for an interview.ย  We set up a time to talk, I would call that evening on her home phone land line for the interview.ย  I called that night.ย  No answer. I contacted her the next day.ย …

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