An open letter to Donald Trump from the father of a transgender soldier

Dear President Trump: I heard, with great dismay and shock, your decision to bar transgender men and women from serving in our military forces.ย  In a series of Twitter posts yesterday, you stated that transgender soldiers were a “distraction” to the military. These were your words, as posted yesterday on your official Twitter account.

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The best Halloween costume ever is worn by my son Kris

When you’re a single parent, many times the things that you do will immediately reflect on your kid.ย  Trust me.ย  You start watching a certain TV show, and eventually your kid will become hooked on that show.ย  You start listening to a certain band, and eventually that kid will have a Spotify channel devoted to…

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You’re never too old for a CARE package

Yesterday, I put a little gift in a mailer, added postage, scribbled an address, and sent it off to my child, Kris, in Washington State. I do this on occasion.ย  It’s the way I roll. Kris is an adult, but as far as I’m concerned, he still deserves a CARE package now and again. Why?ย …

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Thoughts while window-bashing…

Last night I spent some time in reflection.ย  I do that when it comes to “window-bashing,” my term for removing the old glass from a future Dream Window artwork.ย  In this case, this particular window frame was coated with dirt and gunk and cobwebs and cracks and flakes and other disgusting thingies.ย  Heck, I think…

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Just packed up Cassaundra’s Christmas gift…

Yes I know how to use a calendar. Yes I know that the holiday happened last month. Yes the headline is correct… However… I gotta explain. In December, I saw the WMHT “Memories of Hoffman’s Playland” documentary.ย  And man it was good.ย  Really, really good.ย  So I figured I’d get my daughter Cassaundra a copy…

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I need your help today…

No, I’m not looking to dump ice water on my head.ย  Already took care of that, I donated money to the ALS of New York and yesterday they sent me a Lou Gehrig bobblehead doll.ย  Nice. No, I’m not looking for a financial donation or anything like that.ย  The Blackbird is running quite well, I’m…

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You never stop being a parent.

Think about that headline for a couple of moments. From the day you hold your newly-born son or daughter in your arms, you are a parent.ย  For all that that entails. You are a parent when those first steps are taken. You are a parent when they discover that crayons and wallpaper go together. You…

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